August 9, 2007
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rape?
i tune into the local station every morning on my commute to work. i found this morning's debate rather interesting.
"mark" wrote into the show. he is a 35 year old, successful husband.. and father of two. the president of a well known, prestigious company. there is this 24 year old employee.. "hana".. at his place of work who has been on his jock for quite some time. anyway, hormones flare.. yaddi ya and mark finally gives in. him and hana end up grabbing a room at the local hotel. mark states that at this point.. "i cheated on my family".. (no shit, sherlock).. so, they're doing the dirty.. she's on top working it.. when all of a sudden mark demands her to get off, to stop. he's about to explode. instead of getting off of his rod.. hana starts to rock it faster and harder.. and wa-la.. mark ejaculates inside of hana. now, mark.. as stated.. "is a nervous wreck"..
he didn't get into any further details. the male deejay is on the air, furious.. claiming this was rape.. that hana raped mark and how there should be laws placed to protect other males from something like this. the co-host, a female.. is claiming that it was nothing close to a "rape".. that this was all mark's fault because he chose to engage in sexual acts with hana. the deejay is saying that this was all premeditated. hana wanted to get pregnant by mark because of his status and that was her intentions all along. the co-host is neutral on this accusation.. but she's saying that it doesn't matter.. mark should have worn a condom and this was all his fault, even if those were hana's intentions. he chose to have sex with her..
the part that got me was when the deejay took calls from listeners.. every female who called in firmly stated that this was 100%, without a doubt mark's fault.. that he brought it all upon himself.. and it was.. in no way.. a rape. all the male callers disagreed. they believed it to be a rape.
so where do i stand? i think hana is a conniving wench and mark is a horny, retarded prick. but let's reverse the roles. what if mark is pounding the yoohoo out of hana and she demands that he stop.. he doesn't respect her wishes.. and continues, this time at a faster speed and with way more force. isn't that rape? a double standard, i say. if a chick were to inform the police that she'd been raped.. that the guy didn't stop when she fully expressed to him that she wanted him to.. then that guy would be hauled off to the station, without a question. now, imagine if mark had gone to the police and stated that hana continued on.. when he had expressed his wishes for her to stop. call me ignorant, but this, to me.. is bullshit. a complete double standard.
for hana to rock it even harder after he tells her to get off just manifests her true intentions. yeah, mark was wrong to even sleep with her in the first place. he effed up big time. but she should have gotten off of him when he told her to. eight seconds -- the time from when he tells her.. to the actual ejaculation. that was plenty of time for her to remove her skank ass from his infested one eyed monster.
both were at fault. but honestly.. that really sucks if she ends up being pregnant.. and keeps the child for all these wrong reasons. and he can't do anything about it. but on the other hand, it was mark's decision to have sex with hana.. he had to have accepted the possibility of something like this happening. but it just bothers me that he clearly demanded her to get off.. and not only did she disregard it.. she pounded him even harder. trifling.
Comments (21)
completely agree with you, but i also think the guy's an idiot for not covering it up to begin with.
yep, agree with above comment. can't trust women =).
I think many people--prob mostly females--find the idea of a woman raping a man as being incomprehensible. The guy is an idiot, but when he said no, she should've stopped (my question is why didn't he just push her off?).
I've never cum in a girl (when I didn't want to). He's diverting the blame and needs to face the consequences. Unless hana is 300 pounds this guys is moron. er...I guess even if she was 300 lbs he's a moron. I'm a "fattist", ha!
Franksabunch took the words right outta my mouth (or the text from right under my fingers?).
I agree with fanksabunch and syntaxian... who gives a crap if they were wearing a condom or if she's going to get pregnant and that he's a cheater and all that shit... that's all just fluff to hide the question, was it rape? I'm sure plenty of guys have been in the situation where the sexin' was good, but then all of a sudden she tells you go get off for whatever reason. You bet yer ass the chick would claim rape if you didn't get off... in that respect... I feel bad for the guy... it's a funny situation, cause he's just fucked on all fronts. Home and work. That's why you shouldn't shit where you eat....
It wasn't rape.
if its rape for women, it should be rape for a man as well.
i think that its bullshit that society classifies rape of women as morally reprehensible (it 1000% is), while the rape of men is some how funny, or their own fault.
100% bullshit.
100% his fault for not having a condom... dumb-ass...
i like to rape little children. does that make me a bad person?
people are saying that mark could have shoved her off of him.. but that'd be kind of hard, no? i mean.. you're in that state.. about to nut.. and the chick begins pouncing on your wee wee hella hard. i would imagine it to be rather difficult to pry her off.
I'm not entirely convinced that "rocking harder" means that she had planned some evil shit. Besides, what if he said "stop," like how guys say stop when they're about to bust? Shrug. Certainly sounds like rape, though.
well for me, i would knock her off forcefully, then nut in her eye. then stick it in her ass. but thats just me being the gangster i am.
i was under the impression that rape can only be called if sex has not yet started, ie before woohoo begins one of them says no; if the other continues, then it would be considered rape; but this has given me more to think about...
so since both of them already consented to sex (especially unprotected sex) then no rape, they both take the consequences, the guy's stupid for not being more selfconscious of his position and the girl is pretty eff-ed up but found a nice loophole to exploit.
fuck that. They both deserve to have a million ugly babies.
Love.
no glove, no love.
and yeah, he should have pushed her off.
is she hot?
I think the stupid thing about all this is that even if she did get off on time, what makes him think she wouldn't get pregnant from pre-cum?
Interesting discussion.
I think you point out the salient aspects of the issue quite well, and I agree with your conclusion. On the other hand, I have to say your description of the events were quite playfully tongue-in-cheek. Some of the turns-oh-phrase gave me quite a chuckle --
"i cheated on my family".. (no shit, sherlock).. so, they're doing the dirty.. she's on top working it.. when all of a sudden mark demands her to get off, to stop. he's about to explode. instead of getting off of his rod.. hana starts to rock it faster and harder.. and wa-la.. mark ejaculates inside of hana.
BTW:
Just wait for Fedor Emelienenko.
That's a heavyweight.
Oh, never read this post, most def. the dude is an idiot. He's married and he's porking someone with the love glove, plain stupid. I agree with most of the peeps above, had this been the other way, and the dude started giving her the mad piston action when she told him to stop. He'd be serving 15 years in state, with a bunkie named TINY. He'd be getting the love with no vaseline.
I'm sure it was probably not her intention to try and rape the dude, nor to try and get preggos. She's probably on the pill, but you have to wonder about a guy who bones a random girl when he's got a wife and family at home. Personally, I'd be more worried about coming home with some fucked up disease that's going to make your Johnson fall off.
Finally, if I really wanted to get someone off of me, I'd probably just toss her ass off. It just felt too damn good and he didn't want to stop (which wouldn't have been a problem had he been wearing a rubber). You can't have your cake and eat it too muthafucker.