July 24, 2007
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this is hilarious.
what a whore.
what constitutes a cheater? (relationship wise..)
does it have to entail actual penetration? or.. is infidelity committed the second you even think about another man/woman (in an intimate manner)? or.. does it have to involve something physical? emotional? i'm curious to know as everyone seems to define it differently..
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LOL....that's so cute.
Physical intimacy is cheating. Emotional depends from person to person.
Everyone has thoughts. Certain thoughts cant be controlled, so I say no culpability for those thoughts. But thats where the line ends.
Physical flirting is in a grey area. Holding hands, petting, touching can all be cheating. Its all about the emotional/thoughts while doing the flirting.
But when in doubt, follow the guidelines in road trip:
Its not cheating if you have sex with 2 girls, because they cancel each other out.
haha you know when you are cheating.....cuz umm everything becomes secretive.
so i guess a secret dinner date could be constituted as cheating
I agree with clubracer...
Lol Freaking Ho-ey ass orange
I think emotional cheating is just as bad.
thinking about being with another person in either an emotional or physical way is cheating.
however, since EVERYBODY does that at some point or another we could all be considered cheaters which then makes it not really cheating.
because of this, we have to refine the definition....we can't all be cheaters and call other people cheaters because the word cheaters is defined on the stipulation there are non-cheaters.
so, cheating is really only when you take those thoughts (which we all get) and act on them.
there!
poor orange slob... he should just juice himself & get it over with.
Emotional involvement is just as bad (if not worse) than physical involvement in my book. Passing thoughts are normal, but when people begin to dwell on it and obsess over it, it's not so excusable.
I suppose it varies from situation to situation, you know? As a general rule, I'd have to say that if the "guilty" party is feeling that they have to hide something, or it is something that the "innocent" party is uncomfortable with (ie: boyfriend taking other girls out to dinner, even if nothing sexual is going on) that the "guilty" party is unwilling to stop (ie: boyfriend just says she's over-reacting, and she's too sensitive or jealous or possessive).
actual penetration??? what's actual? so like, anal sex isn't cheating. sahweeeeeeeeeeet
cheating is one of few things that make relationships fun...
cheating is what the two people define it as.
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edit, i have one huge leg
intent. situation.
of course i did. and that particular machine didn't have a readout to tell you how much you put in, which was why he couldn't figure out if the machine was broken or he hadn't put in the right amount.
it's just the american way to think that everyone should assimilate to the american language and way of thinking. our coins say "one dime," "one cent," "quarter dollar" and "five cents." all those require a working knowledge of english. it's so typical of this country to do that. how simple would it be to just put 1, 5, 10 and 25 on the respective coins, and make their size accordingly if they're the same color as opposed to being bronze?
There are different levels varying from thoughts to actual physical action. I would say that any action or thought involving this other person that you would feel uncomfortable sharing with your SO means you're in a danger zone.
I stole that pic and posted that a while back too. hehe.
I think everybody thinks about it, but acting on it is the difference. Flirting is kind of a weird situation because it's funny to get a rise out of people but you can get caught up in it and then it becomes a slippery slope.
It's not cheating if you pay for it.
haha.
When you're not 100% truthful, especially if you withhold anything that you know will end up hurting your other 1/2.
it's only cheating if you're guilty about it
Anytime you do something with a girl you would normally do with your Girl, you're cheating-- whether or not it's boning sick or telling her first how your day went.
this thing is old...
dude I want to eat that orange... out
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Cheating is usually limited to phyiscal activity; kissing and so forth. Thinking about something isn't cheating. One has to act on the impulse.
good question... cause there was a time when the person i was with was a total cheater before she got with me.... sleepin' around and what not... the worse I ever did was kiss another girl... most would say I was a cheater, but... i refuse to believe that I'm even in the same category as her... but hey... what do i know...
Cheating...Anything that requires the hiding of the truth from your other half.
You know you are cheating if you feel guilty which is a very low threshold.
No penetration required. Infidelity happens through emotional commitment; commitment as in more than an occasional thought, but a regular and continued giving of one's emotional heart.
And anything you do that you can't tell your g/boyfriend about.. maybe a phone call or a caress.
people these days seem to be brainwashed about love and romance. and very few actually compare it correctly to olden times. (much more violence and blood and conquering)
poor orange.
now i dont remember my point.
i was chatting w/ my friends late last nite about relationships, and we came to an analogy of a relationship being a book and the 2 people involved are reading the book together. in order for the relationship to work, both people must be "on the same page".
when 2 people read/ share the same book, one person will definately be faster than the other. and it is up to that person to slow down to let the other catch up or stop (sacrifice) before turing to the next page. however, sometimes the faster reader will read ahead just a little bit because "the book" is very interesting. If this keeps going on and on, eventually that one person will be done w/ "the book" (relationship) and want to goto the next "book"; leading to lots of drama in the relationship.
i guess how this relates to your post is if the 2 involved stay on the "same page" then there shouldnt be any "cheating" going on (unless the "fast reader" can read 2 "books" at the same time)
Clinton said he never had a relationship with that woman because he never penetrated.
need to separate physical and emotional cheating... some are more tolerant of one than others... had a long debate about this with college buddies back in the dorm days, too long to write about, hehe
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